Grandparents

My grandmother was over today, as usual. Se has this annoying habit of telling me she is taking me out to lunch, which is exactly what I don't have time for or the money for (and she doesn't either). I don't want to go out to eat and I don't want her making me feel guilty for not going. But she does, she always makes me feel guilty by telling me that "she isn't going to be around forever" or that "I just miss you so much and want to spend some time with my grandaughter."

At least once this semester is over in school we can go out to lunch once a month or something. I know it will make her happy and I DO want her to be happy...but why does it always involve feeding me? Why can't she say "let's go out for coffee or to a movie?" But no--LUNCH. Damn lunch everytime! Do all families revolve around food like this? Why can' t we go to a show or to the theater? I am tired of the same ol' suggestion every time.